I used the Greyjoy icon on this one for a reason.<\/p>\n
We reap what we sow.<\/p>\n
I will be returning to the key issues involving the Hugo Awards and the Sad Puppy slate soon. Maybe later tonight. Maybe tomorrow. But first a small aside. I want to talk about tone.<\/p>\n
There’s a thing out there on the internet called “the Tone Argument.” Supposedly this is a bad, bad thing to do. In online discussions, one must never use the Tone Argument.<\/p>\n
The way I have seen it work, dozens of times now, is that a debate or discussion starts out as a reasonable exchange of ideas, but then grows heated. Tempers fray, names are called, the posts get uglier and angrier… and someone, or maybe a bunch of someones, steps over the line and says something truly cruel or hurtful or just nasty. And the target, or maybe a bystander, objects and says, “no call for language like that” or “can’t we all calm down” or something along that line… whereupon a loud cry of “Tone Argument, Tone Argument, Tone Argument” goes up, and person who called for calm is shouted down or torn apart.<\/p>\n
The essence of the trope seems to be that if you’re on my side, you can say anything you like, no matter how vicious or unkind or inflammatory, and I will defend not only your argument but your “right” to be as nasty as you want. If you’re on the other side, of course, well, that’s a whole different story. Then you might get silenced or moderated or banned.<\/p>\n
There’s also a lot of rhetoric about kicking down and punching up and the like.<\/p>\n
I say it’s spinach, and I say the hell with it.<\/p>\n
I am against punching and kicking. Up, down, or sideways. No punching here, please. <\/p>\n
I applaud the Tone Argument. The Tone Argument is valid. Yay for the Tone Argument.<\/p>\n
We can disagree with each other without attacking each other. And no, I am not going to listen to you if you’re screaming at me and calling me offensive names. You shouldn’t either, no matter who you are. None of us should have to put up with that shit. <\/p>\n
It really pisses me off, reading some of the threads and comments on both sides of Puppygate, that every time someone calls for a more reasoned discourse and an end to all the name-calling, we hear a chorus of, “they started it” and “no, THEY started it” and “they called me X so I will call them Y” and “don’t you dare silence me, I will say anything I like, I’m the one who speaks truth to power.” I don’t care who started it. I just want it to stop.<\/p>\n
And it will. On my Not A Blog, at least.<\/p>\n
We reap what we sow. Enough. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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